（4）找到自己的路。想起若干年前电影《燕尾蝶》中固力果唱的那首“My Way”，真是再次触动我心里最深处。希望自己鼓起勇气，坚定意志，不再想成为另一个“谁”，而是坚定的，做唯一的一个”自己“，不管前路多艰苦，不管经历多少失败，不管外界声音如何，不管是别人眼中的“捷径”亦或是“漫漫长征”，我都希望走自己选择的路，因为我希望回首往事时，我能无悔地说“I did it my way”.
And now, the end is near; And so I face the final curtain. My friend, I'll say it clear, I'll state my case, of which I'm certain. I've lived a life that's full. I've traveled each and ev'ry highway; And more, much more than this, I did it my way. Regrets, I've had a few; But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption. I planned each charted course; Each careful step along the byway, But more, much more than this, I did it my way. Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew When I bit off more than I could chew. But through it all, when there was doubt, I ate it up and spit it out. I faced it all and I stood tall; And did it my way. I've loved, I've laughed and cried. I've had my fill; my share of losing. And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing. To think I did all that; And may I say - not in a shy way, "Oh no, oh no not me, I did it my way". For what is a man, what has he got? If not himself, then he has naught. To say the things he truly feels; And not the words of one who kneels. The record shows I took the blows - And did it my way! Yes, it was my way.